My background is Australian and British. I grew up in Australia, where my fantasies first emerged and teased. But it was only later, when I first moved to England that I began to explore and expand my horizons. My travels then took me to the USA where I continued my self-exploration and began my career as a professional Dominatrix. Now, I live back in London – my favourite city - where I enjoy being part of the vibrant BDSM social scene.
As a teenager, I could only fantasize about S/M type scenarios - it took me a few more years before I found the courage to act on my desires. At first, I was purely submissive, but the more I explored, the more I discovered my ability for helping others fulfill their fantasies.
It's been said before that starting as a submissive makes one a better Dominant. I believe this is very true and that my background as a submissive makes me more aware and attuned to what you need out of the Domme/sub relationship - more able to understand your needs, desires and fantasies and to better fulfill these.
Growing up, I was always told it was important to enjoy one's chosen vocation and so, despite an engineering degree and a successful (but boring) corporate career, I decided to make domination my full time profession - a decision I've never regretted and which has brought me, and continues to bring me, much satisfaction and pleasure. |